18 December 2009

How To Stay Happy When You Are Single.

1. Surround yourself with single friends. It's hard not to want a partner when you are surrounded with lovey-dovey couples and you are the only one alone. You may end up being in a relationship not for the fact you love your partner, you just need their companion. And that is not good.

2. Do not envy your friend who you think got the perfect boyfie. Ala maybe laki  tu da la kacak, baik, bertimbangrasa, kaya, and the type you want to bring home and flaunt to your mama and said, "ma i noe u gonna love him". No. Jangan dengki oke. Laki tu mungkin nampak mcm perfect and great whatever. Tapi ade ke orang yang sempurna? Ade je flaws dia. And kalau kau dengki dkt your friend yang dpt partner perfect tu, kau buang masa. Nothing good is going to happen anyway. Someday you will meet your MR.Right. It is just the matter of time. Just be happy for your friend.

3. Banyakkan aktiviti. Aktiviti bersama rakan2. You know, if you are in a relationship tak semua benda kite boleh join dan buat kan. Let's say, would your partner allow you to go socializing gila2 with your friends. I mean, laki dan pompuan punya kawan. To most couples, even the other one  allow  korg have fun same kwn2 pun, lama2 ia akan mencetuskan pergaduhan.Bosan la. So to single people, go out.HAVE FUN. Go socializing, dance your heart out, go bbq-ing, go to a play, do movie marathon, get involved in sports and loads more. Bila lagi?

4. Take things positively. Let's say if something happened in your life and you just don't know where to go, who to talk to, whom can comfort you.. Don't take it as, uh, ni seme sbb aku single xde partner. Fak ah. You know what? What doesn't kill you will make you stronger. So be weak if you believe you are weak, and be strong if you want to. :)

5. Atasi kebosanan anda. Anda bosan takde partner? HEHE. If bosan, tak perlu pun couple. Just find someone untuk rapat dengan anda untuk satu2 masa. Macam, skandal lah kot. Fun sebab kau dengan skandal kau hanyalah sekadar skandal. Die takle buat kau macam partner dia. And if dia tny sejauh mne je relation korg ni, just ckp you tak ready lg untuk a serious relationship. Tapi kau akan have fun, sebab fun hanyalah benda yang kau perlu sebab kau bosan kan. Tak perlu pun seseorang yang bgtaw kau what to do.when to do.how to do. you know laaah if da kapel cmne kn.

6. Do Not Listen To Those Sad Tunes! Lagi2 if you have a bad experience in your past relationship. Sedih la weh. Delete je lagu2 sedih dan penuhkan dengan lappy/komp/mp3,4,5/phone/cd dlm kete dgn lagu2 gembira. It might sound so cliche, tapi2 kadang2 choice lagu pun mempengaruhi emosi kann :)


7. Be Happy For Your Ex(-es). Hidup xkan move on to a new phase if you still live in your past. Tak kesah ah past kau tu buruk gila dan sangat menyedihkan pun, life goes on. Tak kesah ah ex kau tinggal kau lepas kikis duit kau pun. Tak kesah ah ex kau ade pompuan lain dan kau hanya dpt tahu selepas 3 tahun. Tak kesah ah ex kau tinggalkan kau diambang perkahwinan sebab jumpa org lain. What past is past. Tutup lah buku lama dan bukalah buku baru. Kegembiraan xkan datang kalau kau xbenarkan dia masuk. Tips ketujuh ini turut ditujukan kepada diri sendiri yang kadang2 pikir jgk bende2 lama neh.


tips2 adelah dari pengalaman sendirik.
That's it. Single people, be happy! :)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

hahahaha~i like this!
but it will be impossible for me to do it.....

kim said...

good post babe. buat aku lega je. hhaa

NUR BAZLA OMAR said...

awesome.
taknak dengar lagu tangkap leleh lagi dah. haha.

 
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